Down the rabbit hole.. cautiously curious

lizziejustin903 said:

Stealing our intro from another similar site 🙂

Who are we?
Curious but cautious couple...
Justin 30, Lizzie 23.. more often Lizzie on the site
Midwest, US

We've been married for 5ish years and due to a handful of recent events and my (Lizzie's) Christmas present we are moving forward with this and its been something we have discussed for a couple years... if you're looking for someone ready to dive into a date or a bed, that isn't going to be us.

Why are we here?
The long and short is sex hasn't been great for a long time and we discussed me (Lizzie) finding sex outside of the relationship and that is where we are heading. Sex tends to be short and awkward (we were best friends our entire lives, he's older, more siblingesque and arranged marriage at times than husband/wife). The stress and anxiety makes it worse and he tends to avoid sex a lot. We also can't have biological word not permitted together which is more or less his issue too and stresses him out more. We haven't been able to work it out so that is why we are here.

What we want?
While we've discussed it between us for a long time we've not taken any steps publicly until now. We are just now getting started and exploring and learning and trying to figure things out. Slowly our discussions for me to find sex elsewhere have evolved into more of a cuckold thing too.. but even at that chances are I'm going to meet/hookup with someone in person first to make sure it's something I really want to do before being open to meeting someone online.

Feel free to message, IM, or whatever.. but again we are in no rush to trade phone numbers or go out on 'dates'.. this is a learning experience and getting comfortable with it and figuring out what we want.

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lizziejustin903 said:

Stealing our intro from another similar site 🙂

Who are we?
Curious but cautious couple...
Justin 30, Lizzie 23.. more often Lizzie on the site
Midwest, US

We've been married for 5ish years and due to a handful of recent events and my (Lizzie's) Christmas present we are moving forward with this and its been something we have discussed for a couple years... if you're looking for someone ready to dive into a date or a bed, that isn't going to be us.

Why are we here?
The long and short is sex hasn't been great for a long time and we discussed me (Lizzie) finding sex outside of the relationship and that is where we are heading. Sex tends to be short and awkward (we were best friends our entire lives, he's older, more siblingesque and arranged marriage at times than husband/wife). The stress and anxiety makes it worse and he tends to avoid sex a lot. We also can't have biological word not permitted together which is more or less his issue too and stresses him out more. We haven't been able to work it out so that is why we are here.

What we want?
While we've discussed it between us for a long time we've not taken any steps publicly until now. We are just now getting started and exploring and learning and trying to figure things out. Slowly our discussions for me to find sex elsewhere have evolved into more of a cuckold thing too.. but even at that chances are I'm going to meet/hookup with someone in person first to make sure it's something I really want to do before being open to meeting someone online.

Feel free to message, IM, or whatever.. but again we are in no rush to trade phone numbers or go out on 'dates'.. this is a learning experience and getting comfortable with it and figuring out what we want.

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lizziejustin903 said:

Thanks..appreciate all the kind and not creepy aggressive posts comments... he is hesitant and indifferent, I am optimistic, excited, and looking forward to the first time with someone else... so we have different somewhat opposing views at times but we'll figure it out as we go.. we've accepted it is what it is at this point..

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