One recent discovery: If there is one thing that really changes one's sex life (for the better ofcourse) and liberates one like nothing else, it is Living Alone. Its The ultimate liberator.

 

Wouldn't being truly alone change your sex life for the worse? If you're alone, you've got no one to share sex with. Unless of course that's what you want, then I suppose it could be a change for the better.

 

It all depends on the circumstances, I guess. I used to live earlier with Mom. And now I live alone. If I were with a boyfriend, I would be stuck with him. Being alone gives me the opportunity and the space to try out various guys (or/and gals) . Thats what I meant.

 

Living alone gets old and very lonely no matter how many one nighters you have.

I lived alone for 8 years (when I wasen't deployed). All the bar girls in the world can't take the place of one good person that loves you laying beside you in bed.

 

I agree

With Angela,

Living alone does open up more avenues for fun

 

living alone would be amazing if you wanted to have pressure free fun and experimentation. i got lucky with my girl and she is fairly liberal , otherwise living alone would be so tempting!

 

Have been living alone only for a short while now...may be therefore it appears more fun. May be with time I will change my opinion. But believe me, I am making the most of it...

 

Hmm

Wishing I was there to give you some company tonight

 

Shoot enjoy it while you can. You can walk thru the house how ever you want and don't have to worry about it :excited:

 

Being in a long term relationship liberates more than living alone.

If you are with a partner you can trust, you can fuck without worries about STDs. So, you can fuck without condom and do lots of things that you can't do with them.

The best of both worlds is when you're with a long term partner and you both agree on an open relationship. This way, you can be totally free with him, but you can still fuck others with protection.

 

I can't wait, while the wife and I have been on our own since 1986 we have one more son that has yet to move out at 22 years old (still trying to find his way) I've taken to raising the pressure to including, telling him,"You need to be out of the house for x amount of hours and I wouldn't open the door to the living room unless you want to see exactly how you were conceived?" I joke and say to my friends that if I really want him away from the house more I'd come down after sex and say,"Wow she can suck head!" (I'd never embarrass or disrespect my wife that way) But I'm otherwise discreetly frank with him since he has "cock blocked me" by being within ear shot which luckily my wife has gotten over now she let's the screams fly and he doesn't "want" to be around!

 

I am sure you look forward to that Milo... You must be in your fifties, I presume...And with I just having turned 20 three months back, you can imagine the havoc my glands must be wreaking. And being a dancer a nightclub, being always surrounded by clients who look forward to "score" you, friends who cant think beyond scoring or getting scored either, I find this extremely liberating. I have been having all kinds of friends come home and I have been having a whale of a time everywhere around the house....

 

Living alone is just a status - you can be living alone, but have every day different people, or the same people populating your apartment...

In my opinion, you have chosen the right lane!...

Furthermore, when/if you find the right guy, you don't have to ask mother and/or father to let you bring the guy at home...

Still, you must be very careful!
If you bring in the wrong guy, you will have to deal with him all by yourself!...

 

I have lived on my own for many years and I love it. I'm in a relationship right now, but I'd never consider moving in together.

I'm not sure it has liberated me in any way if I'm honest (most of the time if I'm meeting someone it's at his or in a neutral space such as a hotel room - don't want strangers tramping through my home), but I love being able to be as selfish as I please. If I want to wander round naked I can. If I can't sleep and I want to read at 3am then I can. If I want to eat peanut butter from the jar for my dinner then I can

My guy also benefits from my selfishness. Whenever he sees me I am fresh from the shower, makeup on and silky smooth and hairless. There are always fresh linens on the bed and flowers at the bedside. The batteries on all his favourite toys are always fully charged. I'm always wearing lovely underwear. The flat is always clean and welcoming. There is always a fresh pot of tea and something lovely to eat after we've had our play. Most importantly I'm always revved up and ready for hours of glorious sex, and I'm always extremely happy to see him, as he is me.

Once we're spent we have a cup of tea and some chat, then I show him out and collapse into bed where I morph back from sweet-smelling sex goddess to snoring farting lard-arse again:excited:

 

I am 52, and always lived alone, and still enjoy it.

 

my brother was in a COMMITTED relationship for 10 years, and lived alone.
his girlfriend, would at times pressure him to get married. she would stay
at his place at times.

there were times he just wanted to be all alone. some how, she couldn't
deal & see his side & get ALL EMOTIONAL. my brother liked coming home
to an empty quiet house, and just sit with a cold one in front of the t.v..

now, there no longer together. she wanted MARRIAGE, he DIDN'T.

he heard/seen all the HORROR stories, his went through with their
marriages/relationships. he told our mom he did miss her. but, just
couldn't do the settling down gig.

she moved on and found someone else, had a baby too. from time to
time, they talk MUTUALLY on the phone. from what i heard, he doesn't
do everything she wants him to do or be. ( what ever that means )

to say all that, you may or ( may not ) miss out on a good lover in
your life or on the way whether it a choice of ( man or women ) of
your preference.

 

Angel I know exactly what you mean. I lived alone for a few years and in that time, I had the most amazing time. I set my own time, had my own space, scream as much as I liked. No one to tell me what to do. Sexual experiences were many, varied and freaking awesome. To tell you the truth, I wouldn't mind going it alone for a while again.:excited:

 

I'm 45 Angela sweetheart but, 50 is a compliment it means that my words feel wise and experienced our glands (the wife and mine) are going through a resurgence of sexual energy, just like your feeling at this time? We're playing games of fantasy and fun that only 10-12 years ago my wife wouldn't have been able to enjoy and that's why it's so important to "clean house" We fucked on the couch for the first time since our oldest was born over 25 years ago (something most would take for granted) She spent the first 22 years denying her sexual rights, the next 10 still hiding those feelings and only now at 48 can I mention a fantasy like; "Her feeding me pussy on the dining room table?" and watch her eyebrows raise! So you can see my need to get the last adult child out?

 

I've never really lived alone, but have spend weeks at atime alone. Loved the freedom. I am now living with two other women, we have our own space when we need it. Compaionship when we need that. Best of both worlds.

 

I thought I was pretty promiscuous even when I was in high school and living at home. But when I moved into a sorority house at college, my sex life REALLY kicked into high gear. I wasn't actually living alone, but my roommates offered nothing but encouragement. In short, we were all fucking our brains out.